Laa ni, cheq nak habaq mai dekat kalian semuaa cara-cara nak bermessage dengan gadis. Bukan nak condemn. Bukan nak claim perempuan ni demand or anything lah. Tapi menulis berdasarkan pengalaman kerana saya adalah perempuan dan ini adalah apa yang saya mahukan. Ada big probability mungkin sama juga dengan perempuan di luar sana. It could give girl a hope and it could give boy a solution.
Cara-cara untuk text perempuan :
- don't reply them late : mana lah tahu the girl tbe2 dah feel easy and comfortable with you. who knows kan. tiba-tiba awak reply lambat. it could ruin her mood tau. kami tunggu text anda (:
- don't reply them with your only 'K': 'K' is killing. Nampak macam dah tak berminat untuk bermessage.
- don't reply them short : it won't make them feel special and it won't make them to see you interested in texting her. #serioustalk
- do ask them question : kadang2, bila the girl dah penat bebel, ada one part dia akan text dengan cara seperti ingin menamatkan conversation. tapi sebenarnya tidak. tiba2 dia rasa segan. like this, ''eh, aku ni text panjang2, mamat ni entah2 dah muak''. So she'll end up buat2 to end the story to trace whether you are still interested and listening to her or not. So masa ni lah waktu tepat untuk anda tanya soalan apa2 pun to keep the conversation going. #I always did this -.-
- Put smiley and HaHa : it does make the conversation looks fancy and not too serious.
DO NOT send lots and lots of texts and DO NOT get wordy or longwinded.
Warm texting and Cold texting
One stop into the land of definitions before we continue. I want to ensure we make a different between warm and cold texting, because it's an important distinction. So, let's define these terms henceforth for the reminder. Hehe.
- Warm texting : when you text message a girl who was expecting to hear from you at the time you texted her, or was thinking about you.
- Cold texting : when you text message a girl who was not expecting to hear from you at the time you texted her and was not thinking about you.
why the distinction? because you are going to strike a different tone in a different types of messages, depending on how prepared a girl was to be talking to you.
Cara untuk mulakan?
- a greeting : Hi(:
- her name : Vianna(:
- a piece of new information : result upu dan boleh check(:
- something that show's you are considering her : sorry:( / okay tak?
Texting a girl is a little more nuanced than you thought. ain't it? An alert one is the bonus(: