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99 facts about GIRLS.

  1. Say something sweet, she likes it. This is one of the best things that you guys should always remember doing, as often as you could especially when she’s not in the mood. A little appreciation about how good she is looking in your date and when she smells great is something that would put a smile on her face even just for a while and would soon ease the tensions within her.
  2. Do something special for her sometimes. Girls love special things especially when it’s given as a surprise. Doing something like giving her flowers and stuff toys just for no reason would make her day very important and worth remembering. Making girls feel exceptional would make them feel good about themselves as and will take away some of their insecurities as well.
  3. Girls like good smelling guys. When you are in the courting stage or within the datingprocess, you would want to make some ways to get good points, and one of that is to smell good at all times. Girls are sensitive when it comes to a good and a bad smell especially when they are around guys.
  4. Be sensitive at some point, she needs it. As girls, it is very well comprehensible that they are sensitive in many things, especially when they have their mood swings so the guy’s should be more understanding and should feel for them a little bit when they are in this situation. It would be much appreciated when guys would not say or do something stupid at these times.
  5. Walk her home after a date, she wants to feel safe. Even if girls do not say it, they want to be walked safely to their homes. Doing this as a gentleman would be a very big thing, especially for girls who just observing you if you can really take care of them.
  6. Don’t talk about your exes. Guys should always remember that if you are thinking about sharing about your past relationships, you better think twice, she would not want to hear anything about it especially when she didn’t ask for it. Wait for a while, and when she does asks you about your exes, be careful not to make her less special or important.
  7. Looking at the mirror at times is just natural for girls. You would want to make yourself comfortable and get used to it when a girls go to the restroom or powder rooms always, they are naturally conscious with the way they look and smell. Girls are girls; it’s in their system to make themselves presentable especially when they are in a date.
  8. When you did or did not do something wrong, just say sorry. Girls have this woman pride that really comes out especially when they are in the middle of an argument with guys. Girls want to be in control but not always, and feel special even in a fight. An apology coming from guys would make them feel good and it would be easier for her then to realize her mistakes too.
  9. First rule when you enter her life, never cheat! You would want to think twice before getting involved with two girls at the same time. It’s just whether one girl would stick with you, or both girls would slap and make the hell out of you, so be sure that you are really a good guy when you are looking for a good girl.
  10. When guys cheat, girls talk. Guys should put in mind that we girls often have this unity when it comes to cheating guys even before the real relationship. You would want to make it clear that you are not some jerk who collects and selects every good looking girl you pass by. Girls talks about it, even if they are not that close, and can come up with some idea that can make you look worst around other girls, so be careful.
  11. Treat her with respect, she deserves it. When you introduce your girl to anyone, especially around the circle of your friends and family, you should always make her feel well-respected and not just anyone you found somewhere. If you have to tell them that she’s someone special, then say so, if you have to tell them that she’s your girl then be proud of it.
  12. Girls like to be held, especially in the hands. When guys held s a girl’s hand always, this makes girls feel special and makes them think that guys are really proud to have them anywhere.
  13. Hug her sometimes, she loves it. When you are already in an intimate stage and cuddling is by now just fine, then do it as often as you could. Girls like to be cuddled more and this would make her feel more comfortable and safe around you.
  14. Call her by asking if she has already eaten her meal. This approach is something that would put a smile in her face, thinking that you care for her even with the little thought.
  15. Never keep a girl waiting. Trust me; you would want to prevent having a bad day when you go on a date with someone special. Keeping a girl waiting for a guy is not cool at all. In fact, it should be the other way around, it’s not nice to make girls wait on a date and it’s not a gentleman’s way.
  16. Don’t make her say something repeatedly. This manner would really pick something on girls, and if you keep on asking her about something for the 3rd and 4th time, it just shows and means that you are not interested and not listening carefully to what she is talking about.
  17. Let her talk and listen. Guys should really keep in mind that when girls talk they want you to listen very carefully. Guys can just sometimes pretend that they are interested, just don’t make it that obvious.
  18. Admit that you are not always right. Girls appreciate men who know how to accept mistakes, and learn from it. It only shows that you are open-minded and mature enough to acknowledge the things that come along your way.
  19. Don’t even try to lie. Guys should always think many times before deciding to make a lie. Girls have this sensitive intuition that would surely make a way for girls to find out something, and it works.
  20. Make time for her. The time that you give her is very important for her, and as much as possible any disturbances should not be an option for you or else she will feel taken for granted.
  21. Don’t tell her that you understand if you are not that sure. She will just be wasting her time telling you all her concerns when you are not into it.
  22. Try to be interested with her interests. Girls would really appreciate a guy who makes an effort to blend-in with her hobbies.
  23. Make her smile by teasing her. Girls like guys who has a sense of humor, and who knows how to take away girls stress on a busy day, jut set aside those pick-up lines it doesn’t work all the time.
  24. Girls let guys see they are crying when they are really hurt. Some girls are strong enough to hide their emotions as guys do, but when girls are really upset about something, it just means that guys should do something about it, even just a comfort will do.
  25. Girls like to be called beautiful all the time. Complimenting how she looks is a big dealfor her, telling her how beautiful she is more than enough.
  26. When girls are into something special with guys, they always think about them. Yes, especially when they admire that guy for the longest time.
  27. When girls say that they like you, they really do. Girls are outspoken to what they feel when they can’t hide it anymore.
  28. Girls like to be pulled by their waist. When guys do this, it gives girls the feeling of taken care of.
  29. Kissing her in the hand would make her blush; it is somewhat one of the basic things girls love especially on romantic and quiet places when they are alone with their guys.
  30. Sometimes, when girls show you they hate you it means the other way around. These scenes are sometimes called defensive mechanisms that any girls would do, just to hide a little bit of their interests towards guys.
  31. When guys tell something meaningful, girls treasure it. Your evocative words that catch girl’s attention would really last a lifetime in their hearts.
  32. When a girl makes an effort to cook something for you, you are special to her. Girls often do this for someone, but when they do, they make sure you’ll love it.
  33. Girls are ready to talk dirty at the right time and place. When you are on the second base of the relationship, it’s alright to talk about it, but ask for her permission if necessary.
  34. When girls make you jealous, she only wants your attention. Some girls do this strategy because they want to test their guys if they really care about them.
  35. Girls love to be stared at sometimes. Looking straight in her eyes tells something, this melts her heart especially when she is attracted to you.
  36. Girls like it when guys ask advice from them. This action just shows that you trust her, and that she’s someone you can count on.
  37. Girls don’t like too flirty guys. Flirting with a lot of girls simply means you’re not a one-woman-man; remember that actions speak louder all the time.
  38. Girls like guys who care a lot for their parents. Taking care of your family shows a lot about how you are being raced by your parents. It is also a big plus for being a potential family man.
  39. Girls hate guys who kiss and tell. We know girls talk a lot, but we also know that guys also do. What happens between you and your girl is a private thing that also tests your respect for her.
  40. Girls know they are complicated, but complicating things more won’t help.
  41. When girls say NO, it only means keep trying. Girls are inconsistent, especially when deciding for their guy’s interests.
  42. Girls like guys who show their real emotions, even crying. It proves a lot about guys that they are not just all about strength but that they are also human.
  43. When you make promises, keep it. Girls hate it when you just keep on telling promises you never do. This action would eventually lose her interests towards you in the long run.
  44. Changing for the better will let her stick with you. It simply means that you want to grow with her inside the relationship you are building.
  45. Girls don’t like guys who show-off their cars. It is really not that important.
  46. Be natural, be yourself. Pretenders will never last, girls notice it easily.
  47. Be protective, but not too much. She likes it when you care for her, but not to the point of choking her at times.
  48. Put your best foot forward; make a connection with her family. If you want to be with her, you should also be ready to love who she loves, especially her family.
  49. Girls depend on guy’s strength when she can’t take the pressure anymore. Your back is all she wants, your love and your concerns.
  50. Knowing her likes and dislikes is cool for her. This means that you are that interested to get to know her better and to make ways to make her happy.
  51. Respect her friends, so she can respect yours too. Guy’s things are just like girl’s things, respecting each other’s company is always healthier.
  52. When you smile, it means a lot to her. In a stressful day, your smile can put away her problems and headaches.
  53. Her family is important to her, so make sure you are ready to adjust. But then, it does not mean that you are the only one with this, she is always at your back to guide you.
  54. It’s a big thing for girls, if guys make a good friendship with them. A relationship with a good friendship foundation is always better, than not having any at all.
  55. When you say you like them, girls want you to make an effort to prove it. Remember, some good girls do not trust too much, as they are also afraid of heartbreaks like other guys do.
  56. Girls don’t like talkative guys. It is more acceptable if you are shy and a good listener, than being too chatty.
  57. Tell her that you miss her before going to bed; she’ll have a wonderful dream and will even think of you at times.
  58. When girls dress up for your date, she’s got something for you. Girls make themselves look at their best especially for someone very special.
  59. When she lets you wait for a month, it means she’s not that interested with you. An earlier answer means that she does not want to waste both your times.
  60. When she lets you wait for a year, it means you are her potential lifetime partner. This is her way of testing your patients.
  61. Don’t force her to do something she’s not yet ready for, it will piss her off. You might want to make a distance when you are being too pushy.
  62. When you talk about love, make sure you know what you are talking about. Love is an important topic for girls, and they are also sensitive about it.
  63. A responsible guy is better than a guy without a job. Trust me; it is a shame for guys who let their girls work for a living alone.
  64. Confidence is a turn-on for her, but too much is not. You don’t need to be too arrogant, just relax and be cool.
  65. When she trusts you, take good care of it. Always keep in mind that gaining girl’s trust is easy, but making-up for the shattered trust is hard.
  66. Girls love romantic guys. Kiss her under the rain and in front of your family and friends, it’s not that hard.
  67. When a guy still loves a girl at her worst look, it lets her think that he is sincere about her.
  68. Never swear when fighting with her. That could be a bad habit you would want to mellow down before she decides to go on her own way.
  69. Hugging her without a reason is a very sweet thing for her, especially when you do it surprisingly.
  70. Girls are sometimes drama queens, but you are not allowed to call her that. It would make the whole situation worst, just go with the flow and be the man she needs for the moment.
  71. Your actions mean more than your words. As they say a real man has one word, which means he does what he says he will.
  72. Never forget important dates. You know the rules about anniversaries and birthdays right?, so always give your time for it.
  73. If you want o tell her something you didn’t like, talk to her in private. She will easily adjust and understand your side if you calmly talk to her alone, avoiding embarrassment getting in the way.
  74. When you are coming to her house, make sure knows. Girls would prefer being respected especially with her privacy.
  75. Never guess what she’s feeling, you can ask her. It would never help her out if all you know about is guessing, talk to her and calm her down, learn where to put your concerns.
  76. When a girl is mad at you, give her some time to ease it. Girls would easily be relieved when she has all the time in her hands to settle things out on her own.
  77. Shouting at her in a conversation is unethical. That bad habit of yours would really make her disrespected and would provoke her to be mean.
  78. Sharing your future family plans is important to her. This is your chance to show her how serious you are, especially when you are ready to have a family with her.
  79. When she makes a warning about something, take it seriously.
  80. Never try to change her for something that you just want. She is not a robot, and you wouldn’t want to be treated the same way.
  81. Girls love to be spoiled. They sometimes have this childish part of them that really comes out especially when they want something really badly.
  82. When you made a mess, clean it up. It’s a simple yet a heavy rule for girls.
  83. When she’s tired, a little massage will make her smile.
  84. Supporting her dreams is a big thing to her.
  85. Girls still loves letters and cards. They still have this romantic part of them that blooms when they are in-love.
  86. When you are important to her, she keeps all the things you gave her safely.
  87. Let her win once in a while especially when picking a movie.
  88. Let her sing whenever she wants to sing for you, just listen.
  89. Let her nag you for a while, you’ll see that she’ll make it up to you with everything that you want.
  90. The easiest way to end the argument is to let her win.
  91. If she shows you kindness, give back kindness as well. Every girl deserves to be treated equally with what they can offer.
  92. Never compare her to other women, even your own mom.
  93. When you want her for a serious relationship, ask her. It would really mean a lot if you’ll let her know how you feel.
  94. Communication is the easiest way for her to connect with you.
  95. I LOVE YOU- is a big word for her, so make sure you mean it.
  96. She doesn’t expect you to read her mind; she wants you to ask her.
  97. She nags because she cares a lot for you.
  98. Simple things make girls happy. Every special thought are more important.
  99. A good girl will love a good guy forever when he is faithful.


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